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Familiarity, Part 2

In my previous post I challenged others to let go of the familiarity they held with cherished possessions. To put them on hold for a season. Though this wisdom certainly applies to places and things it runs contrary to maintaining relationships with the people we cherish.

Take my wife for example. If I disassociate myself from her, this would not have a desirable outcome. The same would hold true of my relationship with my children, devoted friends, and God.

When I let go of my familiarity with possessions, it frees me to focus on relationships. It serves to elevate relationships over possessions. That brings me back to the season of Lent, and why so many people choose to do without favorite objects, and focus on their relationship with God and the suffering Jesus endured for all our sakes.

Don’t let familiarity with a relationship you hold dear breed contempt. Instead disassociate yourself from anything that stands in the way.

Please tell me you love me

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Please tell me you love me.  I’m lost without your love.
Reassure me that I linger in your thoughts and prayers.

Tell me you love me again.  I long to hear those words.
The hours separating us are like a hill too steep to climb.

When I say, “I love you,” my words carry the weight of complete devotion.
I have but one desire, to spend the rest of my days with you.

When we say, “I love you,” we understand that it’s food for our soul.
Apart we are two people but together we make each other complete.